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Tips for long distance Grandmothers

I only see my grand daughter two or three times a year.  She is now 7 years old.

This year when I went to my son’s house for Thanksgiving I took a few craft items to share with Madison.   We had so much fun.  It also helped me to stay focused on her.  Making memories !!!!!

I bought a artificial wreath to decorate.  We went to the park and collected tiny pine cones and some of the Sycamore balls.  We painted them with glitter paint and let them dry.   We attached them with green pipe cleaners.    I also bought some very small red jingle bells that I attached together in bundles of three with the green pipe cleaners and attached to the wreath.  Then we added some candy canes for some extra color.

I also bought a pottery kit which was $20 on sale.  It was great.   We made one large and two small bowls…cups???  They air dry and then you paint them.  Great for sitting on your dresser and putting hair accessories or change, etc.   My daughter had taken a pottery class so she was a lot of help and enjoyed the time with her niece also.  Now I am thinking I want my own real pottery wheel.   Retirement is right around the corner…plenty of time for that stuff.

I also bought a few of the foam Christmas ornaments to put together, with glue.   Also, we painted some sun catchers.

My grand daughter cried when I left and it broke my heart.   It also made me feel good that she didn’t want us to leave.   I am looking forward to retiring and being able to go visit more often.

I love you, Madison.   I am very blessed to have such an intelligent, beautiful grand daughter and three great kids and an exceptional daughter-in-law and son-in-law.

Baby Chicks

I was thinking about buying an incubator because I keep paying for new chickens as the older ones die.  But fortunately, I have a hen that sat on the eggs long enough to hatch five of them.

A few tips for anyone wanting to let a hen hatch eggs….

If you have more hens laying in the same nest, make sure you mark an X on the eggs you want to hatch out and remove the other eggs.  It takes 21 days for the eggs to hatch so I kept removing the eggs after there were eight eggs for her to hatch.   The eggs hatched out every other day.

Our hen would help peck the shell once the chick broke thru the shell.  The sixth chick pecked it’s way thru and then died. My husband and I had helped one other chick out of the shell by breaking part of the shell away to make it easier for it to get out.  Unfortunately, we didn’t help the sixth one because we were on our way to work.  Darn it.

We actually used a large plastic kid’s toy box without the top when it got closer to the 21 days.  We made a nice nest with hay and transferred the eggs while the mom had a fit.   We needed something large enough so the chicks could get out and walk around and have enough room for the food and water, too.  It was perfect.

We also made a rain cover which was a 4×4 board with four legs which were about 4 feet tall.   It kept the rain off the box and allowed the mom room to jump out and  get food and water with the other chickens.

We later transferred the chicks and mom into a 4×8 chain link cage with a heat lamp.  We live in the country and the danger of some animal preying on the baby chicks is very likely.

The chicks are a couple weeks old now and really growing fast.  I wanted to put the mom back in with the other chickens but my husband insist that we leave the mom with the chicks.   Sweet, huh?

Now I will put a perch in the cage so the chicks can start perching at night.

Just hope they aren’t all roosters…

Armadillo Caught and Removed

Remember I told you we have an uninvited armadillo living under our shed who comes out every night and makes havoc in my yard. I read how you need to capture it and move it to an area that has water so that was my plan.

My husband, daughter and I came home after dark and there in our front yard was the culprit just digging away in my yard. Well, I remembered I had a 5 gallon bucket in the trunk of the car. I walked right up to the armadillo and tried to put it over him. He seemed oblivious to our presence even with the car lights shining on him. He was a little bigger than the bucket opening so I didn’t manage to catch him that time. He ran about 20 feet away but he ended up cornering himself so I did manage to get the bucket over him.

Then I had my daughter run inside and grab the extra large cookie sheet I have and I slide it between the bucket and the ground. My husband flipped the bucket upright and carried it to the car.

We flew down the dirt road trying to get to a place to release it before it pushed the cookie sheet off the top of the bucket. We found a spot about a mile away and released it knowing there were a couple of small ponds nearby.

This is most excitement we have had in awhile and we laughed through the whole thing. Making memories!!!!

Blackberries, wasps and snakes

We couldn’t help but notice the wild blackberries growing along the road. We live on a dirt road so it is easy to notice when the they are ripe.

So one evening after dinner, we put on long jeans and high top shoes and starting walking along our road with a large baggie in hand.

Well, the first time we went blackberry picking I got stung by a wasp and my hand and arm swelled up about three inches up my arm. My skin was so tight I thought it would break. I must admit, my hand looked good with no wrinkles. tee hee We saw a small skinny 8 inch long snake, too.

We went blackberry picking last night and we saw the wasps before they saw us this time. I had been warning Bonnie to watch out for snakes and when she steps into tall grass to stop and listen before going further. Sure enough she heard a noise and ran (like the smart woman she is) as a four foot black snake crawled up a tree.

We were victorious though because we got probably a gallon of blackberries. There is a blackberry farm right near our house and maybe next year, we will go there. Probably not. The blackberries are free along the road.

Armadillo in the Backyard

Well, you just never know what will show up in your backyard in Florida. My dogs were barking their heads off and I went outside. I thought it was a turtle in my yard but nope, it was an armadillo.

I had noticed for a few weeks that there holes in my yard where an animal had been digging and Calvin told me it was an armadillo who was doing the damage to our so-called lawn. I say that because right now it is a sandy, brown-grassed yard. No rain.

I have been looking up information about armadillos and they appear to be rather destructive. My daughter and I are going to figure out some way to catch the animal and then release it somewhere else near water. I have a fishing throw net that we could possibly throw on it. Then there is always the option of buying a cage to catch it in. Ace’s Hardware has one. Maybe I will look at it and see if I can build one myself. lol

I will keep you guys updated.

Baby chicks in your future?

I remember when I decided to add chickens to our lives. I had been talking about it for years. I knew I had some things to do before I bought the chickens (food, equipment and fencing supplies). I actually bought the chicks on the spur of the moment one day while I was at the Tractor Supply store. I have now had chickens for 8 years.

I bought some food for the chicks, a feeder, a heat lamp and a waterer. I knew I had a couple weeks before I could put the chicks into a fenced-in area so I would have time to build something.

I put the baby chicks into a tall cardboard box with lots of newspaper in the bottom. As the chicks dirtied the newspaper, I could remove a layer at a time. In about a week, you will need some kind of fencing to cover the top of the box. The chicks will be getting out, if you don’t.

I found a spot in our storage building to put the box and hooked up the heat lamp. You need to be really careful with newspaper, a cardboard box and a heat lamp. I worried that it would catch on fire. I used a regular light bulb instead of one of those infrared lights. It was April so it was pretty warm already.

The chicks grew quickly and after a few weeks, I knew they needed more room. The odor was not pleasant even though I changed the paper every day. The chick’s feeder is a long metal feeder with holes. They would crap on it. Then the water had to be changed every day, too. It only took maybe five to ten minutes a day to clean the box and refill the feeder/water.

We went ahead and made a chicken yard big enough for the chicks as adults. I remember reading somewhere that each chicken needs a 4ft square area. Our goal was to keep somewhere between 6 to 12 hens. I wanted one rooster, too. Now that I have had chickens for a number of years, I can say I didn’t enjoy having a rooster. They make a lot of noise in the mornings. Also, they don’t lay eggs. I often felt sorry for the hens as the rooster jumped on them to mate. If you don’t plan on baby chicks, you don’t need the eggs fertilized.

You will need a shelter at night for them to perch. A place to keep the rain and wind off them, too. In other words, we weren’t worrying about cold weather in Florida. I also made sure I built the fenced-in area under some shade trees to keep the chickens cooler. When they are hot, they tend to open their beaks and also spread their wings.

Another thing, you may have to clip their wings some to keep them from flying over the fence. You just need to clip one wing about two inches or so. Just don’t clip too too much and hurt your chicken. Catching the chicken to clip their wings is fun…lol. You just need to corner it and then reach down and grab it. I must admit, the first time I did it, I thought the chicken would peck me but it didn’t.

Free range chicken eggs are much better for you than the ones you buy at the grocery store so I keep the hens in their yard during their laying time and let them out after I collect the eggs (around 4 or 5pm). They return to their house to perch when it starts to get dark outside. Any time you want them to go back into their yard, just lure them with food and throw it in their yard. Believe me, they come running.

For egg laying nests, we used plastic crates. You can research the size of the nest. I read specific “best” size for a nest and it seems like it was about 14 x 14 inches. Actually, my chickens often laid their eggs on the floor of the house, in a corner. Be sure to collect your eggs every day, especially in the summer. I try to collect the eggs before dinner. They seem to lay somewhere between 11am to 3pm.

If I go away for a couple days, I fill up their waterer and their hanging food container and then just go. Sometimes my neighbor or niece collects the eggs while I am gone. If not, I collect the eggs upon returning and throw them away. It is not safe to eat eggs that have been outside in the heat for days.

To help keep odor down, I kept hay on the floor of the chicken house. During the summer, I often spread a bale of hay in the entire chicken yard. The chickens love to scratch and you will see you have NO grass within a short period of time.

I feed them cracked corn or chicken scratch purchased from the feed store. I keep a small bag of oyster shells on hand, too and throw some out maybe once a week.

You might wonder how many chickens you should you get. Well, I now have just five and they lay at least 12 eggs a week. One day I may get four and another two and then occasionally none. Between baking, keeping hard boiled eggs on hand for salads and making egg salad sandwiches, and then cooking a full breakfast on weekends……that is plenty for us. In fact, I have three dozen eggs in the refrigerator right now.

Remember there is a period of time they will not lay any eggs at all (during the winter). The egg laying process has everything to do with sun light. You can put your chickens under lights and they will continue to lay. I think it is best to allow nature to take it’s course and let the poor chicken’s body rest. Plus, electricity costs money.

I could go on and on about chickens but I will stop now. If you have any questions, you can make a comment and I will try to answer it.

Frankie’s schedule…or overscheduled

Wow, so much going on. It is hard to find the time to post my thoughts or new ideas.

I started a full time job a couple weeks ago. At 57, it is difficult to get back into the routine of working full time plus still having time to take care of the house, laundry and grocery shopping. We are working on paying off bills and getting a larger nest egg for retirement. Plus, there is so much I would like to do to fix up my home. New flooring for my house would be so great. My brother-in-law offered to help me redo my kitchen but I need to buy all the supplies first.

I am feeling very sentimental this morning…thinking about my Dad’s passing on. I know he is in a better place but it is so hard to believe he is gone. I pray every day that my Mom continues to have the desire to live without him. Fifty-eight years of marriage is a very long time and I can’t imagine how difficult it is to get up every morning and he isn’t there beside her in bed. I try to call Mom every day (or two) and see how she is doing. Some days, she sounds like it is such an effort to even speak. She seems to be doing okay on the days when she has things to do to occupy her time. My sisters are really taking good care of her and I sure wish I could be there in NC to help.

My kids seem to be as busy as I am…Brian just got back from a cruise with his wife, Jen. I think it is great how they find time to do things together. Sometimes, you just have to make time for each other. So you don’t drift apart and go your separate ways.

My youngest daughter, Amber is finalizing paperwork for a new job, too. Go Amber. Nice pay increase and lots of benefits….like traveling. I did get to see Amber for about 20 minutes on Sunday. Long story but it has to do with not enough time.

Bonnie and I are spending a lot of Mother/Daughter time getting things done around my property and keeping each other motivated to lose the weight. We both lost another two pounds on our weigh-in last Friday.

I sure wish I could squeeze some time in to go visit my granddaughter, Madison. Every time I see her, she has grown so much. She is beautiful…not just from a grandmother’s point of view either.

Well, it is 6am now and I still need to get the laundry out of the dryer and make my bed before I start getting ready for work. Better run.

Take time to enjoy life folks. Being busy feels good in one sense….but it sure wears an ole body out.

Christmas Holidays/bah humbug

I wish there were some magical way to make myself get into the Christmas spirit. Decorating the house with a tree and lights, buying presents and sending out cards just doesn’t appeal to me. It hasn’t for years. Many years.

Perhaps I don’t like Christmas because I don’t have any small children at home and my only grandchild lives almost 600 miles away. I have lived in Florida now for 10 years and being away from my family probably hasn’t helped the situation. Also, warm weather just doesn’t feel like Christmas either. Actually, I can’t remember when I really enjoyed the Christmas season.

I know the true meaning of Christmas is to celebrate the birth of Jesus. Santa seems to be much more popular than Jesus at Christmas.

People seem to go into so much debt at Christmas, too. That is ridulous. I prefer my family to do/or buy me things throughout the year to show me they love me. My daughter Bonnie bought me a little ceramic chick for $l.99 at Goodwill, I believe and that meant a lot to me. She knows I love and collect chicken stuff. She saw it and it made her think of me. That is love to me. Not buying me an expensive gift just because it is Christmas.

The really great part about the Christmas season is that family get together and enjoy a great meal and each other’s company. Sometimes you are sleeping on an inflatable bed or a sofa sleeper but you are always happy to be there with people who love you.

I was thinking maybe I will start a Christmas Club savings account at the bank. Maybe that will alleviate some of the money stress I feel at Christmas.

It is difficult to decide where to be at Christmas…with my mom, sisters and one brother in Newport, NC…with my son and his family in Raleigh, NC or my daughter and her new husband in Woodstock, GA. My daughter, Bonnie is temporarily in Florida (which is sooooo nice). We use to go to my son’s house because he has a daughter and being at home with the tree and presents is important. But now that she is getting older, they have opted to have Christmas morning alone with her. I can certainly understand that. Afterall, you can open presents and spend time together anytime during the Christmas season.

So…we are spending Christmas with my Mom this year. This is her first Christmas without Dad. I know that is going to be difficult for her. She loves presents, I think. She will miss Dad’s presents and presence.

Well, I guess the least I can do is say “Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.”
If anyone has any suggestions on how I can start enjoying the Christmas season….please let me know.

November Winding Down

Wow, what a hectic month. Thanksgiving is behind us now and Christmas is right around the corner. And then New Year’s Eve. I hope everyone had a great Turkey Day.

We went to Tennessee this year for Thanksgiving. My Dad passed away in October and I knew it would a difficult time for my Mom. Mom and my sister, Jeannie met us at my brother Jerry’s home in Tennessee. The food was great and the company was even better.

My yard sale turned out pretty good last week. I think I will actually have a yard sale myself this Spring. Lord only knows I have enough stuff to sale. It is amazing how much “stuff” we collect over the years.

I have been working in my future garden spot. I have been spreading the manure and hay. Starbucks has bags of coffee grounds that you get free and you can add to your compost or garden area. I picked up a bag the last time I went there with my daughter. Looking forward to picking up a couple more of them since my garden area is large.

I think I may have missed the appropriate time to plant bulbs for my flower bed. I will have to look that up since it is still Fall and the temperature here was 64 degrees at 9pm last night. Isn’t the internet great? I love having so much knowledge at my fingertips.

I have a subscription to Mother Earth News and I am thoroughly enjoying the articles. Even my daughter is interested in it. She is really interested in taking care of our environment. The solar homes information and building your own home stuff is really stimulating information. Makes me want to get to work and make my home and life more self-sufficient.

Chicken stories

If you have chickens for very long, you get use to burying a few. In the last five or six years since I have had chickens, we have buried our fair share. My husband buries them along the fence line near the chicken yard. He is so silly. He comments occasionally that we will have a good crop of chickens growing there one of these days.

For awhile there, everytime I went to NC without my husband, one of my chickens died. He said they missed me and died of loneliness.

One day, a chicken died and my husband was getting ready to bury it. Before he put the chicken in the hole, he took the chicken over to the side of the fence so the other chickens could say goodbye to the dead one.

Another time, he took a dead chicken over to the side of the fence and told the hens they better start laying more eggs or else. The funny thing was….we got four eggs the next day instead of two. Co-incidence…I think not. I didn’t know my husband could talk chicken.

My neighbor, Gail also has chickens. One of her chickens jumped her fence and ended up in my sister-in-law’s back yard with her dogs. Needless to say, that hen didn’t make it. Gail is so soft-hearted that she couldn’t bear to even see the dead animal. My husband offered to go retrieve the dead bird and bury it along the fence line with our dearly departed chickens. Gail also has a beautiful horse. Calvin pointed out that if her horse dies, he is not volunteering for that burial job.

We have two of the South American chickens that lay green shelled eggs. They look like colored Easter eggs. I understand they also come in other pastel colors…I think I heard they lay blue, yellow, pink???? Araucana chickens they are called. I had to look that up.